the moment

The toolbar at the bottom of my laptop’s screen says it is 01:48AM- a time in which the pensive silence reaches its apex in Duke University’s Lilly Library basement. Tired of typing the same hackneyed sentences over and over for my german paper, I avert my eyes from my computer and gaze at this small section of the world like an insidious cat trying to escape from her clichéd identity. But how can I extract myself from myself if the world I live in is itself a platitude as it lets the same old wheel turn for everyone since “you have to work hard if you want to be successful”.

Telling me to leave soon, the lamp of the desk I am sitting at starts shimmering madly reminding me of my elementary school teacher’s waging index finger hinting her displeasure with eight-year-old troubled me. “Secil is a very smart girl, Ms. Topak, and I’m sure she is working hard too. I only want her to talk more in class because I know she always has interesting ideas that can contribute to her classmates. Considering the papers she has written for my class, I can tell that she is a keen observer and able to express herself in a unique manner. I, moreover, think that she should make use of these features later. Actually, why don't you encourage her to study journalism?” I hear my mom reporting what my high school teachers had said on every parents' day. I have never understood their desire to shape my life for me as if it was a piece of play dough for adults. I don’t know if choosing the path of an engineering curriculum makes me a rebel. Yet, here I am- miles away from home facing a completely foreign world that gives the opportunity to dare to become the person I want to be.

The air in the room seems relieved that “they” pack their belongings with the haste of racers fighting for the gold medal. I hear them thinking about their plans for the next day- no, the circular movement of the earth around itself does not shape days here since they are determined by the ever-renewing work-laden burden you must carry. Stabilizing my look at infinity through the over-aged tables, I shut down my senses and object being a part of this manipulated reality. I own the moment, I am everything about “right now”, I am its ethos with all my perplexing individuality.
The toolbar at the bottom of my laptop’s screen says it is still 01:48AM. I can go home now. It is time to “seize the day” back.

 

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